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Wednesday, February 27, 2013

THE HIDDEN REASONS WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO: MOTIVES 2



NUGGETS ON MOTIVES 2
I have noticed from my own little experience with God that whenever I pray to God for something, first I must believe and know that God wants to answer my prayers. This must be  a settled issue in our hearts regarding our prayers to God.
Mark 11; 24 Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.
I John 3:21-22 Dear friends, if our hearts do not condemn us, we have confidence before God and receive from him anything we ask; because we keep his commands and do what pleases him.
However I also know that God  answers  me and you  in several ways like; with a Yes, this is it;by giving us exactly what we asked for or no, not yet the right timing or no because we have asked with a wrong motive and yes but by giving us a much  better alternative than what I asked for. In whatever we do, God wants us to always check our motives, ask him to cleanse our hearts so we that we will not be going through sessions of unanswered prayers because of our wrong motives.
James 4:3
when you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.
Psalm 26:2
Put me on trial, LORD, and cross-examine me. Test my motives and my heart.
God is not like humans that are easily  impressed with outward actions, God is impressed with what He is going on inside our heart, this is one of the reasons that He liked and chose King David as a man after His own heart despite all his shortcomings and sins.
I Sam 16; 7 But the Lord said to Samuel “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
Act 13; 22 after removing Saul, he made David their king. God testified concerning him: ‘I have found David son of Jesse, a man after my own heart; he will do everything I want him to do.’
He wants us to be quick to repent and not to be looking for excuses or reasons. He knows we are fragile, he recognizes our frailties, but he wants us to recognize and acknowledge our need for him from time to time.

Ps 51; have mercy on me, O God,
    according to your unfailing love;
according to your great compassion
    blot out my transgressions.
Wash away all my iniquity
    and cleanse me from my sin.
For I know my transgressions,
    and my sin is always before me.
 Against you, you only, have I sinned
    and done what is evil in your sight;
so you are right in your verdict
    and justified when you judge.
 Surely I was sinful at birth,
    sinful from the time my mother conceived me.
Yet you desired faithfulness even in the womb;
    you taught me wisdom in that secret place.
Cleanse me with hyssop, and I will be clean;
    wash me, and I will be whiter than snow.
1 Chronicles 29:17
I know, my God, that you examine our hearts and rejoice when you find integrity there. You know I have done all this with good motives, and I have watched your people offer their gifts willingly and joyously.
Proverbs 21:27
the sacrifice of an evil person is detestable, especially when it is offered with wrong motives.
Jeremiah 17:10
But I, the LORD, search all hearts and examine secret motives. I give all people their due rewards, according to what their actions deserve.
Matthew 22:18
But Jesus knew their evil motives. “You hypocrites!” he said. “Why are you trying to trap me?
Evil motives are traps from the enemy, the way Jesus refused and rebuked them; The Lord wants us to reject them in our lives so we can move into what He has in store for us this season.
God wants to entrust great things in our hands, but before He can, he needs our hearts to be purified constantly and continuously.
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Friday, February 22, 2013

NUGGETS NUMBER 3 FROM:NUGGETS FOR LADIES BOOK




1 John 1:8-10 "If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 10 If we say that we have not sinned, we make Him a liar, and His word is not in us".
As Human Beings , we fall into sins from time to time.Nobody is perfect. Sometimes we even find it difficult to admit we are wrong ,once we do things wrong habitually  it becomes harder to say sorry.  However, God knows we are human, and He recognizes that we are full of frailties; this  is why He has given us an open invitation to ask for forgiveness whenever we sin, before our conscience starts to condemn us and or  before the devil our accuser also  starts  to accuse us and also before we get entangled in the mess of our guilt.  Confessing our sins brings purification to our hearts, provides cleansing and healing and it  restores our communication and fellowship with God.
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Sunday, February 17, 2013

HEART TO LOVE ONLINE TALK SHOW WITH FOLA







Invitation for questions/ participants for a new motivational, inspiring and restoring Online Talk Show “Heart to Love with Fola”.
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2. Older Singles trusting God for a Husband.
3. Ladies struggle with issues relating to family and challenging relationships.
4. Ladies that feel trapped and cannot seem to achieve their goals.
5. Ladies that feel that they don’t have what it takes   to succeed after all the hurdles life has been throwing at them.
5 .Ladies that are struggling and have being in the same position for too long.
6. Any lady that is at her wits end.
7. Ladies that feel life has let them down.
8. Ladies that have tried to do all they know to do and wants to do things differently.
9. Ladies that want to succeed despite all the setbacks they have experienced or are experiencing in life.
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THE HIDDEN REASONS;WHY WE DO , WHAT WE DO 1




Blessings to you all for the next few weeks, I will be posting nuggets on The Hidden reasons why we do, what we do: "Motives" what the Word of God says about this great emotion.  We do what we do for various reasons that maybe known to us but hidden to others; some rich parents want their children marrying from a rich family, a man that professed to hate Jesus now goes to a church, a woman or man wants to marry someone living abroad , rich or famous, a business woman or man joins a charitable organization, a gentle man/lady gives a lady/gentleman a ride to work seven days a week, a young adult signs up to join The Army and we all are interacting on social media. These are some examples on what we do with or without a hidden agenda. It has been observed that anything done with an ulterior motive, once the motive is not been achieved, chaos sets in.
Motives can be pure, impure, good, evil, true or false. God is not bothered about what we do but He is more interested and more concerned in our heart conditions and in why we do what we do. God searches, examines our hearts and eventually He exposes the motives of the hearts and the hidden things.
While I was preparing these nuggets I was tremendously blessed and I pray that everyone else that reads through will also be blessed. Enjoy my Nuggets on Motives and have a great week!!!




NUGGETS ON MOTIVES 1

Motive is the reason for doing something especially one that is hidden or not obvious.

Motive is an emotion, desire, physiological need, or similar impulse that acts as an incitement to action.
2 Tim 3:16-17 All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.
Proverbs 16:2
all of a person’s ways seem pure to them, but motives are weighed by the Lord.

Proverbs 21:2   every way of a man is right in his own eyes, but the Lord weighs the heart.

1 Cor 4:5
therefore judge nothing before the appointed time; wait until the Lord comes. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of the heart. At that time each will receive their praise.

Philippians 1:17
those others do not have pure motives as they preach about Christ. They preach with selfish ambition, not sincerely, intending to make my chains more painful to me

Philippians 1:18
But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached. And because of this I rejoice. Yes, and I will continue to rejoice, from God.

1 Thessalonians 2:3
for the appeal we make does not spring from error or impure motives, nor are we trying to trick you.

1 Thessalonians 2:4
for we speak as messengers approved by God to be entrusted with the Good News. Our purpose is to please God, not people. He alone examines the motives of our hearts.

These show that motives can be pure, impure, true or false. God is not bothered about what we do but He is more interested and more concerned in our heart conditions and in why we do what we do. God searches, examines our hearts , weighs our motives and eventually He exposes the motives of the hearts and the hidden things.
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Friday, February 15, 2013

THE WILL OF GOD IN INCREASE CONCLUSION


It is very important to note  that it is not our efforts, hard work or good deeds that bring us   the increase: God is the one that brings the increase to all we do.
1 Corinthians 3: 6 I have planted, Apollos watered; but God gave the increase.
1  Corinthians 3:7
So then neither is he that planteth anything, neither he that watereth; but God that giveth the increase.
2  Corinthians 9:10
Now he who supplies seed to the sower and bread for food will also supply and increase your store of seed and will enlarge the harvest of your righteousness.
Job  8:7
though thy beginning was small, yet thy latter end should greatly increase.
“Church, we must renew our minds to the truth that God wants us to Increase! A wave of increase is coming so we must prepare ourselves for it and have a balanced approach to it so that it will be a blessing to us and our generations. These last days God is pouring out His increase like never before upon His Church so we can be able to make impact and influence the lives of people in the World to The Word of his Power. We cannot make any impact when we are compromising our values or standards or when we are walking in less than God intended for us to walk in.
God wants us to increase in all things in righteousness because we are the remnant that will show the world that one can increase in God without compromising or selling out one’s soul to the devil.
Zechariah 8:12 For the seed shall be prosperous; the vine shall give her fruit, and the ground shall give her increase, and the heavens shall give their dew; and I will cause the remnant of this people to possess all these things.
Psalm 85:12
Yea, the LORD shall give that which is good; and our land shall yield her increase.
Psalm 105:24
And he increased his people greatly; and made them stronger than their enemies.
Remember walking in love is the anointing and mantle for increase upon whatever we lay our hands upon to do  and the reason the devil always attack our love walk is to keep us from increasing and abounding in all God wants us to. Walking in  the Truth of God’s finished works on The Cross is what brings freedom and release from the devils’ strong holds and  bondage . Let us rejoice and be glad for Jesus is coming back  for a Glorious Church without blemish or wrinkles and we win in all and at all times.
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Thursday, February 14, 2013

ENJOY A BEAUTIFUL VALENTINE DAY TODAY




Enjoy  a beautiful Valentine's day and meditate on these powerful nuggets on what Love is:
1 Corinthians 13:1-13
If I speak in the tongues  of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child; I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
Love is the greatest Gift from God to man, and He the originator showed us that loving involves giving by giving up His only begotten Son Jesus Christ to die for us. John 3:16.God is Love and Love is God. This is not the devil’s idea so enjoy a great Valentine day today and make  every day a valentine day; a day of giving and loving.
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Wednesday, February 13, 2013

The Will of God in Increase 6



Another reason that we have to make a  conscious effort on not shifting our focus away from God and God alone is so that our hearts will not become proud  when we begin to see and experience increase in every area of our lives. Pride is one of the tools of the devil that subtly leads to destruction .Pride is the root of selfishness; the root of all evil and it is not from God.  This made the devil lose his position in heaven Isaiah 14:12-14, and Ezekiel 28:12-18.
 Another example of someone   that God increased but became proud and had to be humbled after falling from pride is Nebuchadnezzar in Daniel 4:29-37:
‘Twelve months later he was taking a walk on the flat roof of the royal palace in Babylon.  As he looked out across the city, he said, ‘Look at this great city of Babylon! By my own mighty power, I have built this beautiful city as my royal residence to display my majestic splendor. ‘While these words were still in his mouth, a voice called down from heaven, ‘O King Nebuchadnezzar, this message is for you! You are no longer ruler of this kingdom.  You will be driven from human society. You will live in the fields with the wild animals, and you will eat grass like a cow. Seven periods of time will pass while you live this way, until you learn that the Most High rules over the kingdoms of the world and gives them to anyone he chooses.’
 “That same hour the judgment was fulfilled, and Nebuchadnezzar was driven from human society. He ate grass like a cow, and he was drenched with the dew of heaven. He lived this way until his hair was as long as eagles’ feathers and his nails were like birds’ claws.
Nebuchadnezzar Praises God
“After this time had passed, I, Nebuchadnezzar, looked up to heaven. My sanity returned, and I praised and worshiped the Most High and honored the one who lives forever.
His rule is everlasting,
    and his kingdom is eternal.
 All the people of the earth
    are nothing compared to him.
He does as he pleases
    among the angels of heaven
    and among the people of the earth.
No one can stop him or say to him,
    ‘What do you mean by doing these things?’
 “When my sanity returned to me, so did my honor and glory and kingdom. My advisers and nobles sought me out, and I was restored as head of my kingdom, with even greater honor than before.
 “Now I, Nebuchadnezzar, praise and glorify and honor the King of heaven. All his acts are just and true, and he is able to humble the proud.”
Prov 16:18 Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.
Ezekiel 28:5
by your great skill in trading you have increased your wealth, and because of your wealth your heart has grown proud.
Psalm  62:10
do not trust in extortion or put vain hope in stolen goods; though your riches increase, do not set your heart on them.
Proverbs 23:5 Cast but a glance at riches, and they are gone, for they will surely sprout wings and fly off to the sky like an eagle.
Luke 12:15 Then he said to them, “Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions.”
All the earthly things we see and possess are temporal and the things that count for eternity are eternal.
2 Corinthians 4:18 So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.
 2 Tim 3:16-17 All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our  be lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.

May all our focus be on God and God alone and may our lives be equipped for every good work in Jesus name. Amen
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Monday, February 11, 2013

THE WILL OF GOD IN INCREASE 6



 We should seek to increase in not just good things but God things because not all good things are God’s. If the focus and attention is not in the right source and God’s ways, it could make us increase in either good things that are not God’s things. When we seek increase in God’s ways we become godly but if we seek it in worldly ways, we will increase in ungodliness. As a believer we should strive to be increasing in godliness.
2 Timothy 2:16
But shun profane and vain babblings: for they will increase unto more ungodliness.
God does not want us to seek increase in power from the devil, for God is the source of Power.
He wants us to increase in the knowledge of his own power that He has already deposited in every believer, so we can begin to walk in defeat against the enemy’s wiles and tricks.
Ps 62:11One thing God has spoken, two things I have heard : “Power belongs to you, God.
1 Cor  24-25 but to those whom God has called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ the power of God and the wisdom of God.  For the foolishness of God is wiser than human wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than human strength.
Job 12:13 To God belong wisdom and power; counsel and understanding are his.
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Friday, February 8, 2013

THE WILL OF GOD IN INCREASE 5




God wants us to individually  increase in our prayer life, in our spiritual life :our faith and in the Word of God then  we the “Church”  can be more effective witnesses, more souls will be saved and God’s  Will  be done on earth.
Acts 6:7
and the word of God increased; and the number of the disciples multiplied in Jerusalem greatly; and a great company of the priests were obedient to the faith.
Acts 16:5
and so were the churches established in the faith, and increased in number daily.
We are not supposed to be in one position; we have to be moving from one level of Glory to another, if we are not, it is not God’s fault but ours. We have to be the one pursuing for more of whatever we may be lacking is it wisdom, love or actions by looking in His Word and by the Help of The Holy Spirit in us whenever we are willing to yield to Him. God always want us to be willing and obedient and He always rewards our obedience.
Isaiah 1:19
If you are willing and obedient, you shall eat the good of the land.
2 Corinthians 3:18  But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord.
He has already given us all we will need for life and godliness, but we have to reach out by faith, desire increase and be expectant to receive the increase at His appointed time.
Ephesians 3:20 God is able to do much more than we can ask or think, but we have to do our own part in believing ,  putting into corresponding actions of  works and then the  power in us will bring us our desired increase.
God also want us to increase in our maturity in the things of God. He wants us to be students of The Holy Bible for life. That is our manual for success in this world we live in. The only way we can be spiritual is through and by the Word of God. Our understanding of the Word of God  will help us embrace the one that is the source of all our increase , prevent us  from falling away with false or fake doctrines that is contrary to the teachings of Jesus Christ and remove  from us any  feeling of guilt for achieving  increase and/or  promotions.
Hebrews 6:1 therefore let us move beyond the elementary teachings about Christ and be taken forward to maturity, not laying again the foundation of repentance from acts that lead to death, and of faith in God.
 Finally, God wants us to increase in his strength, anointing and power, so his signs and wonders can show forth though us.
Isaiah 40:29
He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.
Acts 9:22
But Saul increased the more in strength, and confounded the Jews which dwelt at Damascus, proving that this is very Christ.

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Thursday, February 7, 2013

The Will of God in Increase 4



God commands us to increase in our love for one another, so we can become more like him and His blessings can be seen in our lives. Love is the secret law and the spiritual way to increase that's why the devil always want to attack us in our love walk with one another .Whenever we walk in love, the anointing and mantle for increase is poured upon all we do.
1 Thessalonians 3:12 May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone else, just as ours does for you.
God wants to increase us through the works of our hands, home and business.
Deuteronomy 16:15
Seven days shalt thou keep a solemn feast unto the LORD thy God in the place which the LORD shall choose: because the LORD thy God shall bless thee in all thine increase, and in all the workof thine hands, therefore thou shalt surely rejoice.
When we are blessed financially after giving God his dues, he wants us to bless the poor and the needy.
Prov 28:27 Those who give to the poor will lack nothing,
    but those who close their eyes to them receive many curses.
Prov 19:17 Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord,
    and he will reward them for what they have done.

God   wants us to increase in our giving so we can receive more and be a blessing to others.

Luke 6:38 "Give and it shall be given you; good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over," This is fullness and abundance.
When we increase in material blessings, the Grace of God is seen in our lives and every reproach of lack will be removed from our lives.
2 Corinthians 8:9 For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you through his poverty might become rich.
The Grace of God is also released unto everyone that gives with the right attitude and every time we sow in faith to increase the propagation of God’s works in His kingdom. The ultimate we can reach for giving is the place of total abundance and no more debts.
Deuteronomy 28:12
The LORD shall open unto thee his good treasure, the heaven to give the rain unto thy land in his season, and to bless all the work of thine hand: and thou shalt lend unto many nations, and thou shalt not borrow.
Ezekiel 36:30
I will increase the fruit of the trees and the crops of the field, so that you will no longer suffer disgrace among the nations because of famine.
2 Corinthians 9:8 And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.
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